
Mary was born in Gloucester, UK in 1948. She lives in
the Cotswolds and runs workshops in the UK and abroad. Her two books,
The Enneagram for the Spirit (pub by Gaia in 2005), and The Chakra
Workout (pub by Gaia in 2006) evolved from her main areas of expertise:
YOGA
Mary has been practicing yoga regularly for over 30 years. She
qualified to teach with the British Wheel of Yoga in 1979. She runs yoga
workshops, combining them with her knowledge of the Enneagram, the
meridians, and the chakras. She also teaches personally tailored yoga
routines, suited to a client’s physical health, emotional state and
personality, in private one-to-one sessions.
ACUPUNCTURE
Qualifying as a Five Element acupuncturist in 1984, Mary ran a
successful practice treating patients holistically for the root causes
of their illness. She trained with the charismatic Professor J.R.
Worsley in Leamington Spa, and at Guangzhou College of Traditional
Medicine, in Guangdong, China. Though no longer practicing acupuncture
her books and workshops are informed by her knowledge of the meridians
and their psychological functions.
ENNEAGRAM
The Enneagram is a system of personality typing, which identifies
nine main types, dating back many hundreds of years to the Sufi mystics.
In 1986 Mary met Helen Palmer in Berkeley California, one of the chief
protagonists of the Enneagram worldwide. She studied in Palo Alto
California with Helen Palmer and Dr David Daniels of Stanford
University, qualifying to teach the enneagram in 1994.
WRITE SPACE
For many years Mary ran creative writing workshops in her
Gloucestershire home, uniquely combining writing with yoga and
meditation, helping both experienced and new writers to free their
creativity. She no longer runs regular workshops in her home, but will
facilitate them elsewhere by special request.
ASTROLOGY
For the last few years Mary has been studying Astrology with
Aquarius Severn in Cheltenham, and does readings on request.
PSYCHIC CONSULTATIONS
Mary applies her psychic intuitions to all fields of her work.
AUTHOR
Mary is the author of two books, The Enneagram for the Spirit – How to
make peace with your personality and understand others (pub by Gaia
2005) and The Chakra Workout (pub Gaia 2006). Click Home and ‘Books’ for
more information
Mary’s inspiration, in her own words…
As a little girl, growing up in Gloucestershire
with my four older brothers, who made natural pairs of two, I spent a
lot of time in a world of my own. For some little girls it’s ponies, for
me it was ballet…much of which was in my head dreaming I was centre
stage at Covent Garden (‘Mary Horsley, WILL you WAKE UP!’) I talked to
my imaginary sister-in-law, pet toad Trethias, Timmy the tortoise, and
the hens.
At night when I lay down to sleep I would often have what I called ‘my
Alice feeling’, when I would become aware of the world slowly turning in
space. After a while it would feel as if my body twisted in one
direction my head in the other, and I would spiral out of my body, grow
very tall and kind-of extrude up to the ceiling. I didn’t expect to be
taken any more seriously about these events than about my imaginary
sister-in-law, or my claims of flying around the lawn, so I kept them
secret, even though I found it rather frightening, and often wondered
‘what if I can’t get back down again?’ Ironically, I now realize that my
father, an unusual man - general practitioner, vegetarian,
anti-vivisectionist and mystic – would probably have been able to tell
me all about out-of-body experiences.
My parents were members of the Order of the Cross. As an average
obnoxious teenager, I rebelled against their strict religious code and
anything that smacked of spirituality, accepting only the vegetarianism,
and have not consciously eaten meat to this day.
The journey into the field of personal development started in the late
1960s when I worked with small children who were homeless in the East
End of London. I married soon after; we had a son and a daughter and
moved to South Wales. One wet night, I went as usual to my
sanity-restoring yoga class in Swansea (I was an exhausted young mum)
and something remarkable happened. The teacher had brought in a claret
red peony for us to meditate on. Not long into the exercise I was
startled to see that the flower was pulsing out an unmistakable green
light for about 2.5 cm (1 in) all around its petals. This glimpse into
another dimension changed the course of my life.
A few months later, lying on my stomach on the floor reading in front of
the fire, in a type of cobra position, I noticed a shining silver
crescent, like cut glass, superimposed on the page. I rubbed my eyes. It
didn’t go away. I looked around the room; the crescent was everywhere I
looked. I took out my contact lenses. It was still there, bigger and
brighter if anything. I didn’t know what was happening - I even called
the doctor. Hours later it faded away. It was not until I was doing my
yoga teacher training a few years later, when I heard Swami
Venkatesanada describe the symbol for Svadisthana chakra, that I
realized what I had seen. Significantly, I understood that certain yoga
postures could spontaneously trigger the opening of a chakra. This event
initiated a life-long interest in the chakras, studying any relevant
books I could lay my hands on.
One thing leads to another…if we allow it. I moved back to
Gloucestershire in 1977, divorced, surviving on a pittance, cleaning
people’s houses while the kids were at school. Out of the blue the
opportunity arose to take up the one remaining place on a British Wheel
of Yoga teacher training course with Fred Lock. Two years later I was
qualified and teaching regular classes.
Ironically, during my training I was myself declared homeless with my
two small children, when our landlord decided to sell the semi-derelict
cottage we were living in. We were re-housed on a ‘troubled’ council
estate nearby, where the benefits of running water did not compensate
for the charms of the cottage. One of the things that kept me going
during these difficult times was regular acupuncture treatments. It was
a revelation that a treatment for an aching shoulder allowed me to let
go of pain on a much deeper emotional level as well. My luck changed
when a small legacy made it possible for me to study Classical Five
Element Acupuncture for myself. The path learning about the subtle
energies of the body was firmly established, patients becoming my
teachers, as my yoga students had been. Again something remarkable
happened. One day my patient and I saw a meridian glowing like a pathway
of light up a patient’s leg just after I had needled her – and I
realized that that was how the meridians were originally mapped.
The next ‘thread’ of my life emerged when my American fiancé introduced
me to his friend Helen Palmer in 1984, one of the chief exponents of a
system of personality typing called the Enneagram. Their conversation
was perplexing. It went something like this: “Yes, well, he’s a Nine,
and he’s not at all clear about where it goes next…” Or: “…he just wants
me to stand up ad fight; match his Eight.” Clearly if I was going to be
able to keep up I was going to have to learn their language.
I read Helen’s book The Enneagram, the Definitive Guide to the Ancient
System for Understanding Yourself and the Others in Your Life with
fascination. It was as if I’d been handed the key to the universe.
Characters from my world leapt out of the pages. The myth that we are
all basically alike was exploded, or rather, re-written. The nine types
are alike. Put a panel of six or seven type Ones on a platform at the
same time and get them to talk about their perspective of the world and
you will hear, and see, communality. This is exactly what Helen would
do. In the manner of the Sufis, who, it is believed, were the first
exponents of the Enneagram, she would pass on this knowledge in the oral
tradition. Each Sunday evening, in a large hall in Berkeley she held
Enneagram seminars, when she would present the material by interviewing
a panel of the same type. The hall was always packed; it seemed that
hundreds of people were interested in this take on personality, and how
we may ‘tame’ it for our growth, and gain great insight about what makes
us and others tick. I went on to study with Helen to teach the Enneagram
in 1993. Nowadays the Enneagram is a hugely popular system for personal
development in the United States and is gaining popularity all over the
world.
During the many years I regularly treated acupuncture patients it became
clear to me that much of their malaise arose from their personality
type. Many times I would do treatments based on the meridians that would
support their type, and found them highly successful. Then I realized
that they could support their health, emotional, physical and spiritual,
between treatments by doing yoga postures that would balance the
malfunctioning meridian. I had come full circle, back to yoga…and
particularly postures that would balance the meridians and the chakras
affecting the person on a very deep level. It was a short step from here
to writing my two books: The Enneagram for the Spirit – How to make
peace with your personality and understand others (pub by Gaia in 2005)
and The Chakra Workout – Balancing the Chakras with Yoga (pub by Gaia in
2006). |